When I was 22 years old, I used to work at Walmart in the toy department. One of the security guards was a really tall 6′ 7 guy that I had a huge crush on for about a year and a ½. I was told that he had a girlfriend, so I never pursued. One day I just decide to go ahead and ask if he would like to hang out or chill at this local bar. He said, “Yeah.” Then we started hanging out and I realized I really liked this guy.
Another 2 months past and we were still hanging out as friends and I decided to see if I could do a love ritual to kind of bring us closer together.
Let me explain, a love ritual is different than an actual love spell. A love ritual is sending out an invitation to someone, so they can express feelings they already have. A love spell is almost invoking them or seducing, to sort of speak, to something they may not have considered.
I was nervous because I wasn’t sure how he really felt about me. So, I finished the ritual and then the next day around that evening he invited me to go to our favorite hangout. We had a good time. At the end of the night he told me there is something he needed to tell me.
Funny to think, but I had totally forgotten that I did the love ritual. So, he says, “Jessica, I love you.” And I looked at him like what? I was totally in shock but knew that my invitation that I sent to him was accepted.
That’s why I totally believe in love rituals but understand it only works if that person already has feelings for you. You’re just inviting them to express it. That’s all you’re doing.
How To Put Your Ritual Together
I use a lot of nature elements in my rituals such as crystals, rose petals, glass of water, sea salt, berries (cherries or cranberries). I also add sage, incense, cinnamon, candy (something sweet like honey or sugar). White, pink or red candle. White or pink piece of paper (to write down his/her first and last name and your request for meditation. Speak it out loud over your ritual). You don’t need any possessions of the person you are inviting. To make your ritual even more powerful choose to do your ritual on a new moon.
Depending on what you desire to experience with the one you love there are several tarot cards that you can add. My favorite is the Ace of Cups which to me, is a deep love connection that is beyond the physical. Next, The Star that represents a spiritual connection and can sometimes show up in a spread when a soulmate is in one’s life. Last the two of cups which is an agreement to be together as well as having mutual romantic and love feelings for each other.
You can add the King of Cups who is nurturing and kind. Also, the King of Pentacles who takes good care of the family finances, practical and typically good at managing money.