I envy those who have at least one good support system. At least one cheerleader that you can cry out your fears to and they are like, “Fuck that, you can do it! I believe in you. Don’t give up. You’re the smartest person I know.”
They rub your back or give you a hug. Send a few smiles your way or make a joke that makes your entire day better.
I so envy those people.
But, what about the rest of us misfits that have no one? We are single moms or dads. We are sick and tired of working jobs we can’t stand and barely pays enough to scratch our balls with. These days everything costs. lol
We heard a call to serve and we ARE SCRUGGLIN’. That’s right not struggling…..scrugglin’. That’s a entire different level of the “struggle being real”.
I can testify to having doubters. They tell you to go get a job, your lazy, you’re wasting time, you will never make it or you need to go back to college.
Maybe, you have one of those doubters living with you every day and when they come home from work they got this frown on their face like, “I’m busting my balls and here she is on Facebook.” lol
I love it when people assume because I’m on Facebook I’m not working. Geeze, man cut a me a break.
When you have no one, like I don’t, you have to be super brave. You have to believe for yourself.
YOU CAN’T WAIT FOR SOMEONE TO BELIEVE IN YOU!
You already know in your heart you have something to offer.
You must have a moment to yourself every day and say, “Hey, Tina, Julie, Sara, Meg or Dawn…. I know you didn’t make much money this week and bills are pilling up, but I want you to know you can do this. I want you to know, you have value. I want you to know that all it takes is determination. If we don’t know how to do something, ask! Ask the Universe. Ask someone in this group. Ask fucking Google! But don’t even think about giving up. Even though you don’t have at least one person who knows you can, I KNOW YOU CAN. You are enough. That’s all we need to win.”
Stop looking at yesterday’s failure! You know how many times these billionaire’s failed?
They didn’t just win after one time of trying. They busted their asses and got back up THOUSANDS of times.
I lost my home, car, friends and family because I lost a huge contract with one of my biggest clients where I was making $3,000 to $6,000 a month!
It was painful, humiliating even debilitating to my very soul.
If I can get my butt back up and try again, so can you. Failure just shows you what you can do to improve. Be better, stronger and wiser the next time around.
The missing component is always YOU! This time, if you fail, pick yourself up a lot faster. Then, the win will come.